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Recently, I pulled my credit reports from all 3 of the credit reporting agencies (Experian, TransUnion, and Equifax). As I looked through the information in those reports, I was struck by the parallel between my credit card life (financial) and my real life (personal). I was in college from August, 1985 until May, 1989. During those years, I had a couple of summer jobs and a couple of on-campus jobs. I lived on campus and all my expenses were paid by my parents so any money that I had in my checking account was to cover my sorority and entertainment expenses. I did not have a car until January of 1989 so I didnt have to worry about gas, maintenance, etc. At any given time, I might have had $300 - $400 in my account.
During college, I opened my first credit card account with American Express . I remember thinking that I would be safe since I would have to pay the balance in full each month. Honestly, I cannot remember if they solicited me or if I went looking for them. What I do remember is feeling a sense of empowerment when I got the card. There was something about having it that made me feel more grown up. Even if I couldnt REALLY afford to use it, at least I had it! I did use that account some but I dont remember keeping it very long. When paying the balance each month got a little harder, I moved to a more flexible card that would let me carry a balance. Next, I opened a VISA account and a Macys store charge. I was about to graduate from college and knew that there would things that I would need interview clothes, furniture, transportation, etc. Obviously, I was immature as far as money was concerned. I actually remember thinking that all I had to worry about was maintaining the minimum payments. It would be years before I would know what the interest rate on those cards was and even longer before I realized that I would never be finished paying minimum payments. I was just thinking about what I could have at the moment.
After a couple of years of working and living in an apartment, I had a chance to move to a duplex. It was a bigger place and it gave me an area where I could have a washer and dryer. Naturally, I opened a Sears charge account to buy the appliances! By now, I was making payments on 3 cards in addition to my living expenses. I was definitely living paycheck to paycheck and I was not saving ANYTHING. In 1994, I needed a new car but had no savings to use for a down payment. I quickly embraced the lease option. That meant I could have more car than I could really afford because the lease payments were lower than the purchase payments. Again, I was operating in the buy it now and figure out how to pay for it later realm! I didnt consider the financial impact of that choice because 1) I didnt like paying attention to the details and 2) I didnt really understand the details.
By this time, I had been living on my own for 5 years. I was making a good salary and I was able to pay my bills but I never seemed to get ahead. I had no money in savings and I was one unexpected expense away from financial disaster. On paper, the debts I owed were relatively small amounts. To me, they seemed like millions of dollars. I had reached my limit of making minimum payments and I felt stuck. I was also disappointed in myself but I didnt totally understand why. Something needed to change! I know now that my biggest problem then was financial ignorance. I thought that being able to balance my checkbook and pay my payments without being overdrawn meant that I was managing my money well. I believed that understanding money was complicated so I didnt make an attempt. It didnt help that I was naïve enough to think that the credit card companies were acting in MY best interest when they increased my credit limits, set low minimum payments, etc! Needless to say, I was a marketer and salespersons dream. I only paid attention to what the monthly payment would be. I spent a couple more years operating this way before I got engaged to be married. Thats when my financial life actually started to change.